#53. It's okay to have your heart broken one too many times.
I wish with all my heart that you do not get acquainted to this kind of pain but, if it has happened already, I want you to know that I had every intention to shield you from this kind of heartache (if only it was possible to). But I can't, love. I can only offer my warmest hugs and a mother's love hoping that it will somehow help in easing the burden you are carrying.
Whatever it is you are feeling right now love, seek comfort in the belief that we all have to go through these kinds of phases in life. Learn from this, so that things wouldn't be all in vain.
#52. Never be afraid to walk away from the things that doesn't help you grow
This can mean so many things, love. This rule is applicable to friends and boys (I'm pretty sure when the time comes you'll be able to have a better grasp of 'life' in general, you'll be visiting this page often).
That said, walk away. Yes. Don't be afraid to walk away from the things that doesn't help you grow. I've been on that road before, I have also cultivated the feeling of 'fixing' things that are broken. People, boys, friends, you name it. I've seen it all.
What I have learned in the process is that when you force yourself on people or relationships with the intention to fix it and nurture it will only create a problem for the both of you. People that carry so many heavy and un-dealt baggage can bring you down. And unless you have figured things out already, approach the situation with extra caution, love.
And when you have done your absolute best to be compassionate and still feel that things aren't working-out for the better, draw the courage to walk away and save yourself the heartache.
#51. There is Strength in Silence
There is a time and place for everything. There is a time to speak and there is also a time where you should voice out your thoughts. Always remember the rule of thumb "When you can't say anything nice, say nothing at all". Your silence does not mean that you submit yourself to the person you are talking (or arguing) to, this means that you are strong enough to control yourself before you say things you might regret.
Words are powerful love, these are one of the things you can never take back once you said it, so before you do something rash, stop and think first.
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